“First we build, then we have snack, then we play outside! Let’s flip the card and see what’s next in our story…”
Jumping through a magic portal
Join child's play 5 minutes before the transition so that you can weave the transition into the play.
Let a favorite stuffed animal, puppet, or toy “lead the way” to the next activity. (Mr. Bear says it is time for dinner….)
Turn the transition into a part of an unfolding story.
Frame the transition as a special mission from a beloved character or imaginary guide.
5, 4,3, 2, 1 pretend to be a rocket blasting off to dinner
Can you tiptoe to the next room without making a sound?
How many hops does it take to get to the table?
Develop a short, personalized storybook that walks the child through their daily routine, with them as the main character. Re-read it daily and refer to it during transitions.
Hop like a bunny to dinner
Crab-walk to the table
Balance a stuffed animal on your head while going
(Let him choose the movement for added control.)
First/Then “First dinner, then tablet time” (put a preferred activity, after a less preferred activity).
Scavenger hunt. Find the ______ on our way in for dinner and bring to the table.
Hide numbers and say “find numbers 2, 0 and 5, the secret code to enter the dinner room”
Help him make “dinner tickets” for everyone and he can pass them out when it is time to transition.
Toys “go to sleep” or trucks “park in the parking garage”
Take a picture of whatever he is playing with, so that he can remember it even though it is time to go inside.
Pretend there is a “pause button” and press it, explaining we can come back after dinner.
Create a “transition treasure bag” - he gets to pick a sensory toy to take with him to dinner.
I see it’s really hard to stop playing outside. It’s okay to feel sad. We’ll come back tomorrow, and right now, let’s fly like a bird to the table.”
Transitions that provide a sense of power and control:
Do you want to go inside in 2 minutes or 5?
Should we hop or tiptoe to the table?
Which toy can come with us to dinner?
Let him announce time for dinner using a toy megaphone or a special wand.
Let him control the timer (pressing start, etc).
Let him help siblings or a toy through the transition first.
Oh no, Bunny says he’s not ready to stop playing. Can you tell Bunny how to get ready for dinner?
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